Comments on: Secret Confessions of a Normal Guy

By: Saffa Chick

Saffa Chick — Sun, 10 Aug 2008 08:13:11 +0000

It is a wet Sunday night and as my hubbie watches the olympics I trawl your archives… ah mate. This one’s just top notch. Milord has told me the same on occasion: that the 12 year old is always critising the performance and sometimes messes the whole lot up.

Good to hear it elsewhere ;-).

I’ve been lucky not to have had bedroom snarking ever, but anyone who tried it probably wouldn’t get any more action… how silly is that?!

By: K

Tue, 05 Aug 2008 21:32:35 +0000

When I said “freaky” I meant the bizarre, weirdo’s that don’t have teeth that I usually attract…

I AM missing a tooth…but I have a crown to replace it. Where does that leave me on the freaky scale?

By: C W

C W — Sun, 03 Aug 2008 14:04:39 +0000

I concur with your commenters (minus the troll-doll)…Great post! Sheds a lot of light on the insecurities of some men…

By: trishatruly

trishatruly — Thu, 19 Jun 2008 02:42:08 +0000

I came here from 2lazydogs post because I though your comments there were “charming”.
Wow! You write extremely well! This post should be published and handed out to every high school boy and girl!
I will definitely be back!

By: Soapbox Diva

Soapbox Diva — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 20:22:34 +0000

Lol…now I have read my second blog of yours….and have been equally delighted by it. And while I cannot conceivably convince you of how wise I am (big smile), I can say I have a pretty good feeling I am much older I am than most everyone here. Yes, I am female, and please don’t judge my grammar….I fell asleep in ‘Eagle Beak” Farlow’s class in 7th grade. Missed the whole basis for the English grammar useage…..and that was back during a time when they still really taught one skills in school, not just how to perform well on measurable tests.

But no matter what one considers ‘normal’ these days or not…..I am fairly certain that even with just this small amount of reading time, any one of even semi- intelligence can see that both DC and TB ARE Real Men…..normal or not….nowadays, I’m not sure guys. But thank God you exist. You give so many women hope that there are more of you out there. Thank you for your services.

And Taoist, I WILL add this line to my quote book, giving you credit of course. “A man is marked by, among other things, the contradictory strength of admitting his weakness. If you can’t admit your own insecurities, then you’re a long damned way from overcoming them.”

Thank you.

By: Taoist Biker

Taoist Biker — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 16:24:40 +0000

Whoops, didn’t know I was a pre-approved commenter until it was too late, heheh. Oh well.

By: Taoist Biker

Taoist Biker — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 18:57:49 +0000

Anyone who confuses the "your/you're" is already halfway to Dimwitsville in my book. I agree with ya, Charming, and I'm pretty sure I'm a man. [*Grabs at crotch*] Yep, still a man. There's a distinct difference between "man-bashing" and "asshole-bashing." A man is marked by, among other things, the contradictory strength of admitting his weakness. If you can't admit your own insecurities, then you're a long damned way from overcoming them. If "real normal men" are the kinds of people that Charming describes above, then I will gladly call myself anything but a "real normal man." If you think that's man bashing, so be it. [Hey DC, as an aside - feel free not to approve this comment if you'd rather just let the whole thing die. I understand that this may have the effect of stirring the hornet's nest.] [EDIT:It comes down to this: If you're already a pre-approved commenter, who posts under a consistent identifier, and doesn't hide behind an insulting (and grammatically incorrect) fake name...well, then you get a lot of leeway in your comments. For example, had Billy of Veggiemacabe (just picking a name at random) said basically the same things, I'd have addressed his points. Not so much for someone who just wants to troll for flames. It's not a perfect system, but it's mine, and that's good enough.]

By: K

Thu, 12 Jun 2008 17:47:35 +0000

Well done!

By: Dead Charming

Dead Charming — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 03:06:53 +0000

To be perfectly clear, I edited OUT the remainder of his comment. No, I have no remorse. This isn’t a debate club. Anyone should feel completely free to disagree with me, but if you want to “argue” please take it to your own blog.

By: Your really a Women right?

Your really a Women right? — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 02:43:12 +0000

But you did bite. So then defend your statements...[Edit:Sadly my friend, you don't seem to understand the true nature of a personal blog. I'm not here to defend my statements, just make them in the first place. Should you take issue with that, please feel more than free to post a rebuttal on your own blog and link back to this post.]